&Civil

A Collection of Essays on Civility, Fellowship & Trust


Mary Alice Proffitt Mary Alice Proffitt

Leaders Lead

A year ago on December 6, 2023, I set out with excitement to attend the annual Seasons of Light: Praying for Peace event at Harvard Divinity School (HDS), advertised as an “annual multireligious service honor[ing] the interplay of holy darkness and light in the world’s religious traditions.”

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Mary Alice Proffitt Mary Alice Proffitt

Kindness Shown

I’ve been reflecting ever more on the question of how a gesture, a smile, a hug, a moment of simple human connection, and a truly curious question followed with great active listening can become the action that does more good than words ever could. 

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Mary Alice Proffitt Mary Alice Proffitt

Looking for the Good

Be on the lookout for the visible signs of invisible good. They’ll tell you more than the asterisms in the sky.

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Mary Alice Proffitt Mary Alice Proffitt

Mother Wit

In anticipating the upcoming holiday season, I recognize there may be challenges for many in our society as we get together at the family dinner table over turkey, stuffing and potentially fraught post-election conversation.

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Mary Alice Proffitt Mary Alice Proffitt

Loving Our Enemies

“Nobody cares what you think!” my housemate snapped after reading an essay I wrote in response to a reading our professor had assigned in the required peace and justice course we were both taking in our year together at Harvard Divinity School.

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Mary Alice Proffitt Mary Alice Proffitt

The Community Table

It’s the day after Election 2024 and Americans, in a clear decision, have just sent Donald Trump back to the White House as our next president.

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